Toots posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 20, 2021
Dear Sweet Mom -
My whole life, I watched you give to others - to your family, your friends, your patients, even strangers. The love that you gave to those around you was strong and genuine. You were the epitome of an angel on earth! You were not only my mom, you were my teacher, my hero, my best friend! I cherish the moments we spent together and am drawing on those to help me get through the most devastating loss I have ever felt. Even though I have had years to get used to you not being the same person you were before Alzheimer's Disease robbed you of your memory, your comprehension and your speech, all I needed to do was touch you, hug you, and see the love emanating from your eyes to know that somehow a little part of you was still there. I miss that. I am sad that Covid has stolen the last few months we could have had together. I am sad that I couldn't hold your hand as you left to join your loved ones in Heaven. But I am rejoicing in the fact that you are once again whole. I imagine you with a handful of M&M's and a glass of wine as you read the latest best seller. I can picture you sitting around with your mom and sisters, laughing and just enjoying each other's company. I can picture you rolling your eyes at Dad as he embarks on a "project", but also looking at him with deep love. I thank you, Sweet Mama, for all that you have given me. I know, when the time comes, that you will be waiting with open arms.